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2nd June 2014
Sunday, June 1, 20148:30 PM

Assalamualaikum hi :) 
hee, so apa khabar semua? hope all of you are doing fine, and yet, these past few days, i knew that few people did read this blog..haha, okay, do enjoy it, cause im writing (typing,haha) just about my bored life, so, haha, im kinda shy, but im OKAY with it.. blog is made to be read kan ? :) 
haha, so hari ni i wanna share something bout nikah ! :) 
yessss, 
NIKAH :) 
hmmm, siapa yang x nak nikah? siapa yang xnak berkeluarga? kalau kita tanya, semua orang nak, lebih2 lagi kita yang umur 19-28 ni, memang semua orang impikan nk kahwin, dengan orang yang kita sayang and orang yang kita CINTA.. tapi cukup sedia ke kita? and mcm mana kita nak perkahwinan kita tu nanti :) 
haha, why am i writing and picking this topic for my post today? 
cause i want to share something that i found from facebook bout few days ago..haha, yet its so meaningful for me, and i do hope this post can change our perception to be better :)
hmm, so, before nikah, kita start dgn choosing the right ONE for our life , haaa, this part is fulfill with happiness, sadness, depressed, stress, and lots more..kan? haha, everyone is trying their best to be the ONE for their LOVED one... but, tak semua orang akan berjaya dgn sekali percubaan...betul tak? berapa ramai orang yang akan break up , get back, couple dgn org lain. yet, this stage is really tough.. somehow, there are few people yang berjaya jugak, bertahan drpd zaman sekolah dulu, then still TOGETHER wktu  belajar kat Universiti or Kolej yang  berlainan, :) haha, kalau pasangan yang mcm ni, we should give them a big APPLAUSE, cause they really made it! when people collapse, and cant get through all the troubles, problems that occur during their relationship, but they proved that there are people that made it :) 
My salutation is for them, seriously :) 
okayyyy, haha, after da jumpa pair masing2, kita da boleh cuba2 untuk planning for future..waktu ni lah, as perempuan kita kena uji lelaki tu, betul ke dia serious dgn kita... tgk cara dia planning, ada tak kita dlm masa depan tu, atau dia cuma sebut "nanti dgn isteri i kan" hahaha... if he did mention bout you, hmm, ada laaa harapan tu, but if not, sila lah be prepare untuk tanya dia "are you really serious to be with me, or not?" huhu,, yet, sometime, we must be aggressive to protect our right as a woman :) eceh, tetiba topic lain...haa, okay2 back to earth.. :P so, same goes to man, ask your partner, what is her planning? and try to figure out, ada tak dia mention bout you, or she just unmention bout "a man" that will be her hubby :) 
so, if ada kita dlm planning tu, maka, peluang kita untuk bersama di masa depan itu cerah terang bersinar! haha, okayyyyy, now move to next stage :) 
 meet her/his family....haaa, ni penting , just to confirm either, the family could accept us or not.. what ever it is, FAMILY is number one.. RESTU family tu sangatlah penting...please bare with it! if la, FAMILY dia x setuju or what, try to pujuk lagi, ask them to give you time, but, if family dia still x boleh terima, STAY AWAY from him/her.. cause the BLESSING is more important than anything in a world..trust me
marriage without bless, is lead to DIVORCE and PROBLEMS in future :) 
if the FAMILY doesnt like you, what more can you do? accept it :) 
in sha Allah, Allah knows the best
next, after BLESSING, we proceed to nikah 
haaa..this is the TIME... so two hearts will turns into one solid heart..and nothing in this world you need more ....
and below is one of the thing in MELAYU yg kita kena ubah tauuu...dont kiss your wife in front of people,but just touch her ubun-ubun kepala and do doa for both of your happiness :)

Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam bersabda: "Apabila salah seorang di antara kalian menikah 

maka hendaknya ia memegang ubun-ubunnya dan berdoa untuk mendapatkan berkat pada wanita (seraya) 

mengucapkan:


اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ خَيْرِهَا وَخَيْرِ مَا جُبِلَتْ عَلَيْهِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا جُبِلَتْ عَلَيْهِ
“Ya Allah, sesungguhnya aku memohon kepada-Mu dari kebaikannya dan kebaikan yang telah Engkau berikan kepadanya,

 dan aku berlindung kepada-Mu dari keburukannya dan keburukan yang Engkau berikan kepadanya.” 

(Sunan Ibnu Majah, no. 1908, Kitab Nikah)




so, i think thats all for now...im kinda moody and doesnt have any ideas more ...
olaaaaaaa, i'll see you all soon! 
Assalamualaikum !