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12.40pm // August 31st. 2014 // Sunday
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hi, and ASSALAMUALAIKUM 


how to maintain the long distance relationship. 
i took it from this BLOG, these things are kinda reminder for me, for a year ahead :)



#1 - Try to Communicate as Much as Possible

Communication is one of the most important things in a long distance relationship. If you don’t communicate often, your relationship will gradually fade, become pointless, and end shortly. Talking is the best way to build an emotional connection with your partner. You can also try to be romantic sometimes by sending love letters or even flowers; it will surely make your partner see that you try to do new things even if you are thousands of miles away.
; according to what ridhwan ever said to me through his ask fm, bout what he wants to survive :  I try to keep her in contact 24/7 even though we're at different time zone. The world is around. We are actually not far away. Love is what encourage me to push the boundaries of love . If you really loves that person, u could wait for her for years. U could be loyal because u want that person to be in your life present and the future

#2 – Visit Often

You can’t always be in a position to visit because of work or your financial situation, but you should try to be more ambitious in visiting your partner. Try to do some overtime and work a deal with your employer so you can have an extra day off; or take up a part time job so that you will have more money, enabling you to visit more often. Also, when you do visit, try to do the things that you both love, and enjoy every moment that you spend with your partner.
; okay this tips is not suit for us for this time being cause i dont want ridh to come back to Malaysia until he's not graduate at June 2015, i want him to save his money there. we should start saving for our marriage in future soon. Allahumma amin :) but when he is in Malaysia, how far we are separated, i wish he will visit me often, and i will do the same thing for him too ! 

#3 - Talk About Your Future

Talking about your future is always healthy for a long distance relationship because it gives both you and your partner proper motivation to work on plans where the relationship doesn’t have to be long distance anymore. Also, by talking about your future together, you will see how much your partner appreciates you, and your partner will see how much you appreciate him/her. 
; Alhamdulillah, as far as i concern, all these months from he REALLY into me, since he really made the decision to be with me, since that day, we always talk bout our future. all i can see with him , is bright future of us, but what ever we need to have faith in Allah. cause if he is really made for me, he will be with me. we can start planning, but we need to remember that always, Allah is the greater PLANNER. if he is my destiny, so he is. :) 

okay, here i skip the number 4 tips, cause i cant see the necessary here.. haha, i dont like it when ridhwan do anything that we used to do behind my back, or without me by his side.. im sorry but that is me :P 

#5 - Don’t Be Controlling

Remember that you can’t control your partner, so don’t even try to be controlling. Your partner can do whatever he/she wants, and you can’t do anything to stop it. But, if your relationship is based on honesty, you shouldn’t have to worry about anything. Chances are that if you try to control your partner, he/she will suspect that you are the one that has been cheating, and will do the same or end it with you.                                          ; yup, we cant control him, fully control is what i meant. yes, we need to develop the strong trust core to each other. so, that, there is no reason for me to not trust him :) 

#6 - Use the Advantages of a Long Distance Relationship

Always keep in mind that you can spend more time with your friends, as well as with yourself if you are in a long distance relationship. You really need to use these advantages as much as you can, instead of constantly thinking about your partner who is thousands of miles away. If you focus on spending time with yourself and your friends, you will easily make it through to the next time you see your partner.

#7 – Fantasize

You should try and fantasize about the physical intimacy/ interaction between you and your partner once a day. You should really challenge your mind to create perfect scenarios that you can play out the next time you see your partner.


#8 – Be Honest

The grassroots of any relationship is honesty. Remember to be honest at all times, no matter what situation you got yourself into. You as a couple will surely find a way to work everything out. Talk about how you feel about the relationship, even if you are starting to lose hope in it; maybe just a simple conversation with your partner will help you regain faith in it.
so, thats all from me now.. im so sleepy right now, i cant even type anything more, i think , so take care everybody, see yaaa in my next post, in sha Allah 
ASSALAMUALAIKUM :)